Chronic Allie
Monday, 7 May 2018
Famous Fibro Fighters!
Monday, 16 April 2018
Other Pain caused by Chronic Pain
- The lack of understanding from other people
- The lack of education and awareness of the condition
- The dismissal of the condition, simply because no one has heard of it
- The fact that nobody else can see the illness at all, as it is completely invisible - this usually causes disbelief
- The absence of any publicity of any Chronic Illness, which in turn causes an `insufficient understanding
- The insufficient funding for people who have Chronic Illness so that there is a massive shortage of support for us
- The insufficient amount of disabled friendly clubs, bars and concerts
- The constant comparison between Cancer and Chronic Illness
- The feeling that our pain will never be validated unless it caused by something (such as a break) or is a known condition (such as arthritis)
- The terror of trying to explain to somebody, be it a boss, colleague, friend, family member or potential love interest how much the pain affects your everyday life, and why you can't do certain things they have asked you to do
- The impact it has on our families as all family events must be catered to suit us
- The things that friends and family have to miss out on because of us
- The feeling of always being a burden to people with spend time with, especially our family
- The pain of making the decision to distance ourselves from people so that we don't become that burden
- The disappointed messages and looks when you have to cancel plans or call in sick at work for the 10th time
- The loss of friends because we have to cancel so often as our pain does not fit with our plans
- The difficulty finding a partner because they also have to take the role as a carer
- The look in your friend's and family's eyes when they feel completely helpless
- The "at least you don't have cancer" comments, despite Chronic Pain and Illness lasting a lifetime
- The suggestions people make to help us "feel better" including, but not limited to, diet, exercise and losing weight
- The labels put on us, including "benefit scroungers", "lazy workers" and "unreliable"
- The looks we get when we use Disabled Facilities in public, such as bus seats, toilets and car parking spaces
- The comments especially about being unreliable, as it is not us that is unreliable- it is our body
- The nasty looks and comments when you don’t give up your seat for an elderly person on public transport, because we may look so young and healthy, when really, we are struggling to stand ourselves
- The people who say they understand when they've never experienced it before
- The little comments about laziness, lucky to not work or staying in bed all day, which truly hurt because we would do anything to be back at work/study full time
- The low self-esteem because we cannot make our bodies look the way we want them to
- The difficulty to let people in and not put on the front
- The uncontrollable bad moods and snappiness when the pain and fatigue is at its worst
- The front that we must put on every single day so that we can go about our day without being judged
- The fear that we will lose many of our fellow Spoonies too early as 1 in 4 people with Chronic Pain commit suicide
- The mental health battle that comes hand in hand with Chronic Pain
- The isolation that stems from not knowing enough people who can relate or understand, and not being able to leave the house on some days
- The insomnia and sleepless nights
- The mental and physical fatigue
- The constant fatigue because our bodies are so worn out by pain
- The many side effects of pain medication such as weight gain/loss, nausea, migraines, bloating, mood highs/lows
- The lack of cure, and the knowledge that we will have to endure it for the rest of our lives
- The frustration of knowing that there is no cause, there is nothing that shows up on tests/scans and it's just "one of those things" that unlucky people get
- The GP's who tell us that it's "all in your head" because nothing shows up on the scans and tests they have done
- The repetitive scans, blood tests, medication reviews, invasive procedures and appointments
- The Brain Fog that means I forget a lot, even with alarms and reminders
- The poor immune system that means we're constantly getting colds, infections, bugs. If you’ve got it, we're getting it
- The things we miss out on, including nights out, holidays/trips with friends, spontaneity, pulling” all-nighters", education
- The lack of money and career prospects as many of us cannot work or can only work part-time
- The inability to "follow your dreams" as they are hindered by the condition and they usually become unrealistic due to the physical limitations of our bodies
- The lack of choices we have in our life
- The absence of power and control over our own bodies
- The jealously of healthy people who can do all the things we cannot do
- The social media posts of people our age travelling, going out on nights out, going to concerts/festivals that make us feel like we are losing the best years of our life
- The hardly existent sex life because we have to preserve our energy to simple brush out teeth in the morning
- The grief of having a "normal" life taken away from us and replaced with an extremely limited one
- The regrets of not doing more when we were healthy
Saturday, 24 February 2018
Quick Update!
Thank you to those of you who read my blog, and I apologise for being away for so long.
Over the past 5 months, my health has deteriorated and in turn, I have had to make adjustments to my life; unfortunately, my blog suffered as a result of that. My health worsened due to "Boom and Bust" as I worked too many long hours over a short period of time, and my body could not keep up with my mind. After being signed off work as a High Ropes Instructor for 2 months, I saw a specialist in Pain and Anaesthetics.
It was with this specialist that I finally got a diagnosis that I truly related to: Central Sensitisation Pain Syndrome. This is an umbrella term for conditions such as Fibromyalgia, in which the nerves in the body are over-sensitised and pain is felt throughout the whole body.
To help with this new diagnosis, I have been attending a Chronic Pain Physiotherapy Group, where I learned how to Pace myself properly and how to manage Flare-Ups. Alongside this, I have been resting and exercising lightly in order to get my body back to a place where I am able to participate in normal activities again.
As I continue to learn about Chronic Pain Conditions, I intend to blog more as I believe that there is a lack of understanding and awareness of these conditions, and this is something that I am becoming more and more passionate about changing!
Please leave any comments or suggestions, they are very much appreciated:)
Love and Spoons,
Allie x x x
Monday, 4 September 2017
Being Chronically Ill & Ill
Those who have Chronic Illnesses often have a weaker immune system because their body is constantly trying to fight something; this means that when they get sick with a virus, bug or infection, their bodies find it harder to fight it off and they do not have as much energy to fight it. It can also make the Chronic Pain and Fatigue symptoms worse.
Currently, I have a cold and to anyone else, this may not seem like a big deal. But to me, it means my energy is really low and my transient pain throughout my whole body is a lot worse. My body is tired of fighting my pain and a cold, so I have very little energy and my Chronic Abdominal Pain is worse because I don't have as much energy to fight it as usual. A few Paracetamol cannot help to ease the symptoms as my body has become immune to these painkillers.
To explain why a cold, infection, virus or other illness affects Spoonies more than those who do not suffer from Chronic Illness, I like to use this metaphor...
I like to think my body has a little army of men who are there to carry on with normal bodily functions and fight pain and illness. People without Chronic Pain or Illness have a larger army than those who do. So my army is split into two groups: normal bodily functions and movement, and fighting pain and illness. The army that fights pain and illness focus on keeping my pain levels down to a minimum on a normal day, however when I become ill with a cold or bug, these men have to split up so that some can go and look after the cold symptoms and pain and some stay with the usual chronic pains. This means that there is less man power to look after the chronic pains, and therefore that pain is worse, and there aren't as many men as there should be helping to fight the cold so it takes longer for them to get rid of it. On really bad pain days, or days when I am ill, sometimes men from the normal bodily functions army come to help fight the pain and illness, but in turn this means there are less men helping with the bodily functions and I cannot do things as well as I could.
This metaphor also helps to explain why I get so fatigued during bad pain days or when I am ill, because the army has to work a lot harder to keep my pain down and this tires them out.
For those who do not suffer from Chronic Illness, but may know someone who does, please understand that our pain and fatigue can become so much worse when we are ill, and please do not think we are over reacting when we say we can't go out or do certain things because we have a cold.
We are always trying our best.
And to my fellow fighters: I understand.
Please leave any comments or suggestions, they are very much appreciated:)
Love and Spoons,
Allie x x x
Sunday, 27 August 2017
Happy Vs Healthy
Spending time with friends and family,
Singing along to music in the car,
Enjoying a cocktail night,
Going out to a club or bar,
Going on trips to theme parks, the theatre or to do outdoor activities.
Monday, 21 August 2017
Constant Pain
Monday, 14 August 2017
Introducing ChronicAllie
Hello fellow Spoonies,
Welcome to ChronicAllie! Thank you for taking the time to look at this blog. This is my first one so bear with me!
My name is Allie, I'm 19 years old and I currently live with the diagnosis of Chronic Pain Syndrome and Chronic Fatigue Syndrome.
It has recently passed my 19th Birthday, and therefore my 5 year diagnosis anniversary, so to mark this milestone, I have decided to write a blog about my journey with Chronic Illness. In my 19th year, I have decided that my aim is to make people more aware of Chronic Illness and the effect it has on the lives of sufferers and their friends and family.
My Chronic Illnesses have affected many aspects of my life, but most recently it has affected my education. Unfortunately, I had to drop out of university due to the lack of understanding from the lecturers and staff, and my biggest flare up yet (more on this soon). So at this point, I am currently working as a High Ropes Instructor, and spending a lot of time reading blogs about other people's personal experiences with Chronic Illness.
These blogs have helped me to cope with flare ups and to feel less isolated, and I hope to bring the same comfort to others with a blog of my own. I also aim to bring awareness to Chronic Illness and the daily struggles us Spoonies deal with. If I only make one person more aware of Chronic Illness, that would be an amazing achievement!
I hope you all enjoy reading my blog and I would value and comments or suggestions :)
Love and Spoons,
Allie x x x
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